One poor girl I know says F___ this and F___ that all the time, and I mean every other word! It is noticeable and distracting, and she won't ever be as successful as she could be with that bad speech pattern. Make it a point to ban those words from your vocabulary. Give yourself every chance to create a favorable impression to others and to sustain it. A girl does not have to have a fancy haircut with highlights, the latest designer shoes and bag, bikini waxes, nails and a tan to be attractive